Bonny

I have had enough of relationship drama, i believe i am a good person so i dont deserve to be treated otherwise. I know God led me to some wrong relationship so that when the person he chose for me comes along, i will appreciate him more. I someone know inside my heart that somebody is out there for me so i am keeping my hopes.. I consider myself a sensitive and sincere person... when i like and love somebody, i give my all.. no conditions. God fearing and kind.. i would love to meet somebody whose also sensitive and caring. Lets meet, be friends and see where it will take us. I would like to meet somebody who have great sense of humor. I am fun loving and an easy going person. I want to enjoy life to the fullest as i believe that life is short. ANY ONE INTERESTED IS WELCOMED INTO MY WORLD...

you can find me at this free dating site

Sally

Hi, I am petite and blonde and like to take care of myself, therefore spend time at the gym and play netball. I have some fantastic friends who I love to spend time with. My job can be challenging but that's what I love about it the most! I love interior design and have now finished decorating and furnishing my house, so it is now my home.

I have travelled to some wonderful places, swam with the dolphins in Mexico, been drenched on the back of an elephant in India and recently rode a camel in Egypt. There are still so many places to go!

I would love to meet someone who is confident with who they are, takes pride in their appearance, keeps themself fit and healthy and who has managed to achieve or wants to achieve the work / home balance to be able to spend some time enjoying themselves, having some fun weekends trying new experiences, and even visit some of those places still to go!

you can find me at this free dating site

Jenny

well id say im deffenitly out going and bubbly! can be bit shy at first but hey that dnt last long! all guys call me drop dead gorjus :D wid out being too big headed of course!love designer labels so much hence the burberry scarf in summer lol! so in love with my new car probally way 2 much infact! hence the reason i wana find my perfect match! got a nice new car... but getting a brand new covertable tigra soon ooo yea!used to do modeling so i cnt b bad looking. looking for a commited relationship wid sum1 id b proud to have on my arm and that knows how to treat a woman wel me of course!and also that would be proud of me. nice looking a good listener that dont cheat! i trust everyone untill they brake it :)i really want sum1 to love spend time with make memories that stay for life and most of all thatl truly love me for bein me (am i asking too much??!? well i want the best in life!) anything else you wana know just ask :) i dnt bite 2 much :P

you can find me at this free dating site

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Women, Hear These Dating Tips

For quite some time now or since time immemorial, many women have been embarking on that quest towards the elusive "Mr. Right". But how does one woman know if she is succeeding on the turf of dating or if she is mainly risking her safety?

Here are ways to know whether a woman is making the most out of her dating life without making her safety suffer.

Listen to your heart.
If intuition tells one that she is not striking a string with a certain main, she should follow her gut feel and dump the guy, gently that is. Dating is not about jumping on every person that shows interest. Settling for something less is not that good of an option.
Trust yourself.

This goes with the gut feel advice. If the man seems too good to be true, chances are, he really is not good for you. Don't be misled by saccharine promises. Learn to psychoanalyze a bit. Doing some background check surely won't hurt.

Feel the earth move under your feet. Nope, I'm not making you dance or something like that. What I mean is keep your self grounded. Don't be swept off by the giddy feeling all too suddenly. Taking things in stride will keep you safe from being hurt if the guy or girl is not really what you expected him or her to be. Single dating is not carried out like an overnight success. Be consciously cautious.

Never give in to peer pressure. If your roommates know about your online dating escapade and are telling you to single out somebody that you think doesn't make the cut, you know, your standards, don't be swayed by them. If they want that guy, they can have him, right? Single dating is not supposed to be the decision of the group, apparently.

Being too desperate over a relationship will spoil the fun of single dating life. If you go against that nagging but "healthy" advice of your instinct that you're overdoing your dealings with your boyfriend and you better stop it or else..., it will be your loss, really. For instance, you came to the point that you're relationship is about to end, in short, you're being dumped, but you're still doing too many things to patch things up, that's obviously being desperate. Single dating is just single dating. If you thought of him as the future father of your babies but you're just a fling for him, for Pete's sake, obviously you're not in the same boat. Get out of that relationship, fast!
If all the while you've been aiming for that long-term relationship, here are few fool-proof tips on how to spot who's NOT the man.

1. He's overly unreliable. Promises to call you but he won't. 2. He does not let you in his intimate circle of friends. 3. He never spouts anything about your future together 4. He rushes you into his bed.

With those in mind, and you armored with presence of mind and a cautious but not paranoid attitude, you'll be well set off for the goodies of single dating. Go get him swooning over you!

Words of Advice on Dating Online

1. Take it slow
There are a lot of nice people online but there are also some bad people who just take advantage of others. To be sure whether the person one is corresponding with is for real or just playing games, it is best to look out for inconsistencies. If at any instance, there is a feeling of doubt or something wrong, then its best to stop and move on.

2. Don't give out personals
Since one does not have any idea who this person can be, it is best not to give out any personal information such as last name, real email address and contact numbers. If the person one is corresponding with keeps on pressuring on this issue, it is best to also stop making contact with that person.

3. Ask for a photo
Some people say it does not matter what is in the outside but what is inside the person. Physical appearance believe it or not matters. To authenticate the person one is talking with online, it is best to ask for a photo. For security reasons, it will be best not just one picture but in various settings. If this person is not able to do this, then one should also stop making contact with this person.

4. Proceed with caution
Earning the trust of people does not happen overnight. By taking some time to know more about this person, one will be able to see if this can on any further or be better off meeting someone else.

5. Meet only when ready
Even if a certain level of trust has been established, it is best to only decide to meet when one is ready. Just like meeting someone for the first time, one should take it slow.

6. Choose a public area
Before meeting this person, it is best to tell people like friends and family where one is going. In the interest of safety and security, it is also best to meet in a public place. If there are many people that are around, the safer it will be in case the date does not workout.
Meeting people online may be a little different from meeting someone new through friends. The similarities in both situations are; it takes time to know a person and there is nothing wrong being too careful especially with matters of the heart.

Dating Tip

Gratitude is transformative. When you're grateful for your blessings, you're happy. You're radiant. You attract men, loyal friends, and good jobs. You lure birds from the trees.
But there is definitely such a thing as being too grateful.

Here's an example: A woman (let's call her Audrey) starts dating a guy (let's call him Doug). Doug is by far the most handsome guy she's ever dated. In fact, he's the first guy she's dated in quite some time. She can't believe her good fortune because, in the looks-oriented world we live in, Audrey has been told she's lacking. She figures she hit the jackpot with Doug.

Her friends can't believe her luck. Heck, her own parents can't believe her luck.
And Doug is really, really nice. He's nice to Audrey about 85% of the time. Sure, he asks to borrow her car a lot. He doesn't always show up when he says he will. He goes out with the boys more often than he does with her. She's caught him in a couple of lies.

But so what! Who cares if sometimes he's a bad boy? Most of the time, he's great. Doug makes Audrey feel special (most of the time). He makes her feel beautiful (most of the time). Hey, he's a guy, and he's good looking. She's just grateful she has a boyfriend.

There are too far many women like Audrey on this planet, and they send me the saddest letters. They get taken for a ride (sometimes in their own cars), and eventually end up picking themselves out of a ditch while Prince Charming moves on to his next victim.
I personally know two guys who consistently date Audreys precisely because they're "grateful." I firmly believe the world is full of wonderful men, but there exists a certain breed of loser who target women that suffer from poor self-images. The goal is to take such women for all they're worth.

Beware.

If your self-image isn't great, you must postpone dating until it is. Stay home, for Pete's sake! Changing your beliefs about yourself should be your sole aim. You simply cannot attract a good man until you do.